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Kids these days are . . well, amazing.

12. June, 2013PostsComments Off

From the desk of MaryLee Hafley ~

Every year around this time, all of the places in which I normally find sanctuary are filled with kids. Malls, movie theaters, restaurants, museums, and book stores attract large groups of kids celebrating their freedom — usually loudly, and always at the table right next to me.

Over the next three months it is easy for our conversations to focus on the color of kids’ hair, how much time they spend texting, and the volume of their music. And why not? Complaining about today’s youth is a time honored tradition. Beethoven was considered a rebel in his day, as was Shakespeare.

“Veteran teachers are saying that never in their experience were young people so thirstily avid of pleasure as now . . so selfish . . .”  

While that sounds like something you might have read on the front page this week, that quote actually comes from Corneila A.P. Comer in The Atlantic in 1911.

While it is true that today’s youth may not use a payphone or the Dewey Decimal System,  there is solid research showing that their increased access to technology makes kids today more empathetic.

This increased level of empathy has generated a call to action among the next generation.  They see a need and quickly find a way to meet it.

One of the exercises we do with the kids staying here at the shelter is to have them write an “About Me” poster. Looking at one of the girl’s posters, my heart broke as I read that Kaemanle was most thankful for her mom and food and most disappointed when she thought about her dad. And yet, by taking the brave step to leave an abusive situation and come to SafeHaven, Kaemanle’s mom has helped to ensure she is not only in a safe place, but has three healthy meals a day and resources to help her deal with her emotions so she can break the pattern of domestic abuse.

It is needs like Kaemanle’s that today’s youth identify through social and traditional media, volunteering, and education programs that make them decide they want to get involved.

This month we are proud to feature two incredible kids who stepped up to meet the needs of victims of domestic violence.  I dare you to read their stories and not be inspired.

With our future in the hands of kids like Carson and Annabella, I think it looks bright indeed.

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Immediate Needs for June

6. June, 2013PostsComments Off

Immediate Needs for June

  • Powdered laundry detergent
  • Kleenex
  • Women’s and plus size clothing & shoes
  • Toddler’s and children’s summer clothing and shoes
  • Women’s and children’s summer pajamas
  • Healthy children’s summer program snacks/juices
  • Bottles & sippie cups
  • Vaseline

For questions or additional information please contact Barb Reese at breese@safehaventc.org or at 817-535-6462 ext 120.

Riding for a cause

17. May, 2013PostsComments Off

The third annual SafeHaven Charity Ride raised $8,600 to help victims of domestic violence in Tarrant County. The May 4th ride from Fort Worth to Hard 8 in Stephenville and back was organized by Lockheed Martin’s F-35 Test Unit and benefits SafeHaven of Tarrant County.  Look closely and you will see SafeHaven board member Scott Turnage joined this year’s ride.

Thanks to Bill Coutts for organizing the ride and a special thanks to Ken Gigliotti for choosing the route and leading the ride, to ride captains Sherman Johnson and Jim Weir, and to everyone who made this ride a success.

Hit the Links for the EWGA Long Shot Golf Tournament Benefiting SafeHaven of Tarrant County.

7. May, 2013PostsComments Off

Hit the Links for the EWGA Long Shot Golf Tournament Benefiting SafeHaven of Tarrant County.

Thursday, May 16, 2013
Tierra Verde Golf Course
Arlington, Texas
1:00 p.m. Shotgun Start

 Time is running out to register for the EWGA Long Shot Invitational Golf Tournament, which is benefiting SafeHaven of Tarrant County.

 Sign up for the tournament at www.cooldoggolf.com by Friday, May 10, and/or consider purchasing one of the four “priceless” silent auction items. EWGA is willing to offer on a “buy now” basis.

 Silent Auction Sneak Peek 

  1. Purchase the advantage of a 5th shot for the tournament and spend the afternoon with ESPN “Around the Horn” regular, Tim Cowlishaw, the sports writer for the Dallas Morning News for 15years and author of Drunk on Sports.  What could be better than having the chance to interact with Tim and learn about local and national sports figures, getting the advantage of a 5th shot for the tournament, and knowing you are helping SafeHaven assist those impacted by domestic violence?   Give the perfect Mother’s Day (yes, mothers can be football and baseball fans, too) or Father’s Day gift.  Take advantage of this “buy now” offer before the tournament and eliminate the chance you may lose “the perfect, priceless gift” to someone you who may outbid you at the Silent Auction.  Or worse, if you can’t play in the tournament, you won’t get a chance to bid on these items at all. Buy Now Price – $1000. 
  2. 3-course lunch with former Texas Ranger, Jose Guzman, at Olenjack’s GrillBuy Now Price -$750 
  3. Round of golf for three with former Dallas Cowboy great Ed “Too Tall” Jones at Cowboys Golf Club.  Buy Now Price – $1500 
  4. Round of golf for three with former Texas Ranger, Jose Guzman, at Cowboys Golf Club.  Buy Now Price – $1500

To make a “buy now” offer, please send an email to Marjorie Stanfield at marjoriestanfield@sbcglobal.net and include which silent auction item you wish to purchase.  She will follow up with you immediately to let you know if you are the first to respond to this “buy now” offer & how to finalize your purchase.

See you on the green!photo credit:by Passive Income Dream.com

Man Shoots Ex-Wife & Another Man Outside Hurst Home

30. April, 2013PostsComments Off

From CBS 11

HURST (CBSDFW.COM) - A man thought to be upset over an ended relationship opened fire on his ex-wife and another man outside of a house in Hurst on Sunday night.

Police and paramedics were called to the home in the 700 block of Thousand Oaks Drive at Oak Creek Drive after 10:00 p.m. Sunday. When they arrived, they found a man and woman with multiple gunshot wounds in the front yard.

Despite their injuries, they and witnesses were able to identify the man who had shot them as 32-year-old Lenar Corales.

Corales was found a short distance away and was taken into custody. He now faces capital murder charges. “We’re collecting evidence, processing the scene, detectives are interviewing witnesses and talking to the person we have detained, and trying to pull it all together and wrap everything up,” said Lt. Mark Schwobel with the Hurst Police Department.

The man and woman, whose identities haven’t been released,  were taken to a local hospital and are in serious condition. Despite their serious injuries, police expect the two to survive.

http://dfw.cbslocal.com/2013/04/29/two-shot-outside-hurst-home/

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Kids these days are . . well, amazing.

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Immediate Needs for June

Immediate Needs for June Powdered laundry detergent Kleenex Women’s and plus size clothing & shoes

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Riding for a cause

The third annual SafeHaven Charity Ride raised $8,600 to help victims of domestic violence in

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Hit the Links for the EWGA Long Shot Golf Tournament Benefiting SafeHaven of Tarrant County.

Hit the Links for the EWGA Long Shot Golf Tournament Benefiting SafeHaven of Tarrant County. Thursday,

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